Consider a person, living life as his usual self, he meets all sorts of people good or bad, happy or sad, he tries his best to be of help to others, he talks to them, and listens to them but sometimes goes overboard in his help, says too much or do something unethical, helping someone is a good deed but being helped doesn't feel as good as you would imagine and sometimes gets ridiculed for it, by people, friends or not, not immune to shame, also has his own problems, he also requires help but doesn't ask, Maybe that's another one of his good deeds? his conviction says, "This is the rightuos thing", but his nature wants him to do the opposite to just help himself and leave others be, thus an alter ego is created which is the humane nature itself, oblivious to thy self and protected from the usual stimulus and hardships. The alter ego is then another self not related to anyone, if it sometimes takes over, then shall he be called two-faced or selfish?

Note to the stranger: I will not let you change, I'll still invite you to mushairas, creating backstories, and music, sayay, indulging in weird thoughts...